Episode 62

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30th Dec 2025

62. When Micromanagement Is Tolerated, It Becomes Culture

Micromanagement doesn’t always look like hovering or control. Sometimes it shows up as a heaviness in the room. Decisions slow down. Language becomes cautious. People start waiting instead of thinking.

If it’s allowed to linger, it doesn’t fade. It settles in. And over time, it becomes “how things work around here.”

In this Friday reflection, James Mayhew walks through why micromanagement spreads when it’s left unspoken, how it quietly reshapes culture, and what it looks like for founders to fix it with dignity instead of blame.

You’ll hear about:

  1. Why unaddressed micromanagement becomes normalized behavior
  2. How tolerated control teaches hesitation and self-protection
  3. The difference between shaping culture and fixing what’s broken
  4. How calm, honest leadership conversations can make the environment lighter — not heavier

Reflection Questions:

  1. Where have you sensed something wasn’t quite right, but hoped time would take care of it for you?
  2. What might change if you trusted that a clear, calm conversation could actually make leadership easier — not harder?

Links & Resources

The Founder’s Growth Newsletter → JamesMayhew.com/newsletter-opt-in

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FREE Guide: 99 Questions to Clarity → NextQuestionGuide.com

Connect with James on LinkedIn → linkedin.com/in/jamesmayhew

Learn more about James at → JamesMayhew.com

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Leadership in 5
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Leadership In 5 is the podcast for founders and executives who are done with vague advice and tired of hearing “just communicate better” like it’s a strategy.

I’m James Mayhew. I’ve served as Chief Culture Officer, coached hundreds of leaders, and made the thousand-plus execution mistakes so you don’t have to. I work with high-growth companies that are scaling fast — but who still want to lead with values, not ego.

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James Mayhew

James R. Mayhew is a leadership coach and strategic advisor to founders and executives building fast-growth, values-driven companies. He created the IDP Way, a leadership system grounded in integrity, dignity, and prosperity. James helps leaders align people, purpose, and performance so their business can scale with clarity, not chaos.

He’s served as Chief Culture Officer, coached hundreds of leaders, and built execution systems that actually work.