Episode 28

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4th Sep 2025

28. Why Good Managers Don’t Take Ownership

Episode 28 — Why Good Managers Don’t Take Ownership

Episode 3 of 9: The Founder’s Blind Spot

You’ve heard it before:

“That’s not my job.”

“No one told me.”

“I didn’t know.”

Or the worst one: “Did you talk with Bill yet?”“No, I haven’t had a chance.”

These phrases drive founders crazy — not because the work doesn’t get done, but because they reveal something deeper: a lack of ownership.

This episode is for the founder who’s tired of managers waiting, avoiding, or deflecting. You don’t need more status updates. You need leaders who step in, take responsibility, and move the business forward without being pushed.

What you’ll take away:

  • Why managers default to safe excuses instead of real ownership
  • How founders accidentally reinforce the very behavior they hate
  • What ownership actually looks like in practice (and why it’s not “caring as much as you do”)
  • How to stop carrying it all yourself by creating the conditions where managers step up

Reflection Questions:

  • Who on your team has settled into a “that’s not my job” mindset?
  • What’s one shift you can make that would unlock real ownership instead of waiting for you?

Related Episodes You’ll Want to Hear Next:

  • [Episode 21: Trust Is Personal] — Why your team can’t lead if you don’t trust them.
  • [Episode 22: You Can’t Force Ownership and That’s Why You’re Still Carrying It All] — Why forcing accountability never creates real ownership.
  • [Episode 25: The Trust Gap] — How your instinct to “fix it fast” blocks your team from taking initiative.

Links and Resources:

  • The Next Question Guide → NextQuestionGuide.com
  • LinkedIn → linkedin.com/in/jamesmayhew

  • Website → JamesMayhew.com
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Leadership in 5
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Leadership In 5 is the podcast for founders and executives who are done with vague advice and tired of hearing “just communicate better” like it’s a strategy.

I’m James Mayhew. I’ve served as Chief Culture Officer, coached hundreds of leaders, and made the thousand-plus execution mistakes so you don’t have to. I work with high-growth companies that are scaling fast — but who still want to lead with values, not ego.

Each episode delivers one sharp insight you can act on. You’ll hear practical guidance built on clarity, not charisma. No theory. No fluff. Just real leadership tools that work in real companies with real people.

This show exists to help you stop over-functioning, stop repeating yourself, and stop holding it all together just to keep the wheels turning. You deserve a business that works without breaking you.

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James Mayhew

James R. Mayhew is a leadership coach and strategic advisor to founders and executives building fast-growth, values-driven companies. He created the IDP Way, a leadership system grounded in integrity, dignity, and prosperity. James helps leaders align people, purpose, and performance so their business can scale with clarity, not chaos.

He’s served as Chief Culture Officer, coached hundreds of leaders, and built execution systems that actually work.