Episode 30

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8th Sep 2025

30. Why Top Performers Go Silent Before They Quit

Episode 30: Why Top Performers Go Silent Before They Quit

Episode 5 in the series, The Founder’s Blind Spot

Your best people don’t storm out. They don’t slam doors. They don’t argue their way to the exit.

They leave quietly.

And if you’re not paying attention, you’ll miss the signals long before they hand in their notice.

This episode exposes the real blind spot: silence isn’t alignment. Silence is disengagement.

When engagement has a sound—questions, debate, disagreement rooted in care—silence means your top performers have already started to check out.

This episode is for founders who:

Want to stop being blindsided by quiet exits and start noticing the warning signs before it’s too late.

What you’ll take away:

  • Silence isn’t confusion—it’s a decision.
  • Engagement has a sound; when it disappears, danger follows.
  • Replacing a top performer costs more than money—it drains trust and stability.
  • A healthy culture never confuses silence with alignment.

Reflection Questions:

  • Who on your team has gone quieter lately?
  • Who used to bring energy and challenge ideas, but now only nods politely?
  • What would change if you treated that silence as disengagement, not agreement?

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Leadership in 5
Lead better in 5 minutes. Tactical insights for founders who want clarity, momentum, and a business that doesn’t break them.
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Leadership In 5 is the podcast for founders and executives who are done with vague advice and tired of hearing “just communicate better” like it’s a strategy.

I’m James Mayhew. I’ve served as Chief Culture Officer, coached hundreds of leaders, and made the thousand-plus execution mistakes so you don’t have to. I work with high-growth companies that are scaling fast — but who still want to lead with values, not ego.

Each episode delivers one sharp insight you can act on. You’ll hear practical guidance built on clarity, not charisma. No theory. No fluff. Just real leadership tools that work in real companies with real people.

This show exists to help you stop over-functioning, stop repeating yourself, and stop holding it all together just to keep the wheels turning. You deserve a business that works without breaking you.

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James Mayhew

James R. Mayhew is a leadership coach and strategic advisor to founders and executives building fast-growth, values-driven companies. He created the IDP Way, a leadership system grounded in integrity, dignity, and prosperity. James helps leaders align people, purpose, and performance so their business can scale with clarity, not chaos.

He’s served as Chief Culture Officer, coached hundreds of leaders, and built execution systems that actually work.