Episode 59

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25th Nov 2025

59. Why “Team Building” Doesn’t Build Teams

You’ve probably invested in team building because it feels like the answer.

But most of what companies call “team building” lives outside the work, fails under pressure, and leaves you wondering what went wrong. In this episode of Leadership in 5, James Mayhew overturns the myth of team building and shows you how founders can build real teams that perform when it matters most.

Most founders want a united, capable team — one that holds up under pressure. What they often get instead is a short-lived morale boost from workshops and retreats that don’t change how work actually happens. This episode exposes that confusion and shows how real team building is structural—rooted in clarity, rhythm, and aligned execution.

You’ll Learn:

  • Why many “team building” efforts collapse when real work returns
  • The difference between team bonding (emotional) and team building (structural)
  • How structure, rhythm, and clarity replace quick morale fixes
  • Why your team can feel connected and still be stuck
  • How to lead the work that makes team building real

Reflection Questions:

  1. If you cancelled your next off-site, what’s already in place that keeps your team moving together?
  2. What small system or habit this week could start turning bonding into building?

Links & Resources:

The Next Question Guide → NextQuestionGuide.com

LinkedIn → linkedin.com/in/jamesmayhew

Website → JamesMayhew.com

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About the Podcast

Leadership in 5
Lead better in 5 minutes. Tactical insights for founders who want clarity, momentum, and a business that doesn’t break them.
Execution without excuses. Five minutes. One insight. No wasted words.

Leadership In 5 is the podcast for founders and executives who are done with vague advice and tired of hearing “just communicate better” like it’s a strategy.

I’m James Mayhew. I’ve served as Chief Culture Officer, coached hundreds of leaders, and made the thousand-plus execution mistakes so you don’t have to. I work with high-growth companies that are scaling fast — but who still want to lead with values, not ego.

Each episode delivers one sharp insight you can act on. You’ll hear practical guidance built on clarity, not charisma. No theory. No fluff. Just real leadership tools that work in real companies with real people.

This show exists to help you stop over-functioning, stop repeating yourself, and stop holding it all together just to keep the wheels turning. You deserve a business that works without breaking you.

The show is grounded in The IDP Way, a leadership system built on Integrity, Dignity, and Prosperity. If those words resonate, you’ll feel at home here. And if they challenge you? Even better. Growth starts with honesty.

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Thanks for listening... and for leading.

About your host

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James Mayhew

James R. Mayhew is a leadership coach and strategic advisor to founders and executives building fast-growth, values-driven companies. He created the IDP Way, a leadership system grounded in integrity, dignity, and prosperity. James helps leaders align people, purpose, and performance so their business can scale with clarity, not chaos.

He’s served as Chief Culture Officer, coached hundreds of leaders, and built execution systems that actually work.